I like to call the interaction that we have with the opposite sex as “the game”. It takes the anxiety out of the approach and it’s just a general term used within the community of seduction.

There are many factors that contribute to how successful you are when attempting to attract women. But what I am going to talk about today, is one of the main factors that has a huge impact on the outcome of an interaction.

That one thing is your “grooming and style”, the type of clothes you wear will most often determine what type of female you are most likely to attract. For example, wearing a man beater that shows your tattoos from the bikey club isn’t going to attract you reserved type of lady or wearing 2 inch thick glasses that blend in with the hundreds of pimples that cover your face is not going to attract an attractive girl with attitude & personality.

So choose what type of women you are attracted to the most and try to link the type of clothes you wear to the style of the type of girl you want to attract. What any women will not appreciate is a guy that doesn’t attempt to take care of himself, so showering fortnightly just wont cut it. A well maintained hairstyle and facial hair grooming is essential.

If you are having trouble on finding out what sort of clothes you should be wearing, observe the guys that are successful with women and copy their style until you have something going of your own. Make friends with these people, if you can’t beat them then you may as well join them. You peer group is yet another factor that contributes to your success with women, but that is worth an article of its own which will come at a later date.

Always wear cologne of some sort, don’t buy a cheap and nasty one save some money and lash out and buy 2-3 expensive ones that smell nice. Take a female friend and have her help you pick them. Its usually a good idea to carry chewing gum with you especially if you expect to meet up with any lady friends, a bad breath is an instant turn off for all women. To make you stand out slightly from the crowd, buy a nice bead necklace and or a ring to wear this acts as a bit of bling to make you look interesting and enhance your chances of you catching the eye of an attractive lady.